Try to avoid paying anything upfront because you want to see if the girls are hot and if the accounts seem realistic. You also want to look for 
sites where the ratio of men to women is good. There is no point in signing up to a site which has many guys and very few women since your chances of success on such an adult dating site are much, much slimmer. Try to take some notes on which site you liked best based on the following (at minimum):
* How many women are registered on the site and do they look like real account? * What is the ratio of women to men? * How easy to use is the site that you are on? * What profile elements are you able to see? (For example, what can you see about the girls? Are they able to provite photos/videos? Is there a messaging limit? etc.)
First you need to get accounts with the best adult dating sites and use their free trials to snoop around the sites
After you have selected the site or sites that you want to try meeting women on, you need to make sure to properly set up your profile. For example, some people will put a bunch of nonsense and garbage in their profile info or they will use old, outdated, and poor quality photos. You have to remember that most women on these sites are also looking for casual or NSA sex and you’re only going to scare them away by talking about love and romance. There are the elements of your profile that you need to pay extra attention to:
Other people will write up profiles talking about love and romance
* Your profile pictures – You need to make sure that your profile pictures are always up to date. Try to make sure that your photos are no more than 1-2 months old, and try to make sure that your photo clearly shows your face and body from the waist up. This does not mean to upload “sexy” half nude or nude photos. You should test and rotate our your photos to see which ones get more women’s attention. * Additional Photos – Always try to include a variety of normal pictures, such is pictures of you hanging out with friends or playing a sport, going to the pool, etc. AVOID posting any nude pictures!! Even on adult dating sites, this is a bad idea. Women like what they don’t see almost as much as they like what they see. This means that they will be thinking more about whats in your pants if you don’t post it as a profile picture. You always want to leave something to the imagination. * Videos – Some of these sites will allow you to post short videos. If they do, consider putting up a short video if you talking into a webcam. All you need to do is say that you are looking to meet a normal girl who is looking to have some fun. You never want to say anything too freaky in these videos. * About You – Try to be as truthful as possible. You may also want to try and be playful and/or bashful but the point here is that you need to be yourself. Most women are looking for a normal guy to have sex with, and not marriage or someone who is potentially creepy, so you want to be careful what you say. * Sexual interests – Write about what you are looking for in a girl, but remember that you want to turn them on and excite their curiosity and not scare them away. Try to imagine romance novels when writing this part. not hardcore porno.
