I’m not going to put energy toward someone who’s not completely interested, but I’m also not going to sit back and wait for things to come to me
He had no idea [I was interested], and I don’t know if it would have ever happened if I didn’t make a move. So I thought, What do I have to lose? If you want something, go after it. You write your own story.”
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I’m not going to put energy toward someone who’s not completely interested, but I’m also not going to sit back and wait for things to come to me
He had no idea [I was interested], and I don’t know if it would have ever happened if I didn’t make a move. So I thought, What do I have to lose? If you want something, go after it. You write your own story.”
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“I met my partner on a dating app. I wasn’t really into doing the whole messaging-back-and-forth-for-weeks-before-meeting thing, so I decided to take a chance and invite him out, right then, to my friend’s birthday party. We ended up staying after everyone left, facing one another on bar stools and leaning in to talk because it was loud. The feeling of wanting to kiss him just came over me, so I placed my bets thinking he e went for it. I didn’t even waste time second guessing myself or worrying about rejection: You have to take those fleeting opportunities when they hit you. It’s been almost two years since then, and I’ve never looked back.”
“I met my partner on a dating app. I wasn’t really into doing the whole messaging-back-and-forth-for-weeks-before-meeting thing, so I decided to take a chance and invite him out, right then, to my friend’s birthday party. We ended up staying after everyone left, facing one another on bar stools and leaning in to talk because it was loud. The feeling of wanting to kiss him just came over me, so I placed my bets thinking he e went for it. I didn’t even waste time second guessing myself or worrying about rejection: You have to take those fleeting opportunities when they hit you. It’s been almost two years since then, and I’ve never looked back.”
