Irrespective, read my post once again, together with the other links we posted, and let me know what precisely about it is misogynistic. (FTR, it will get without stating that critique of females, in as well as itself, is certainly not similar to misogyny).
Into staying in the relationship, my actual happiness be damned– while expecting all the value that was traditionally expected of men– plus more– from me) as I said above: I’ve had plenty of nice dates over the last 20 years with a wide range of otherwise normal women who are decent human beings, and then from all walks of life– bartenders and factory line workers, all the way up to women with masters degrees and doctors (who, FTR, made way more money than I do, and it was never a concern in my eyes), and all of varying physical proportions/attractiveness– short, tall, some slightly overweight, some rail-thin, some flat chested with no hips, some super curvy, some with model-quality facial features, some not so much, etc. )… however, they all wound up being bad relationship material for the reasons I listed above (usually the housepet or overgrown child categories– they expected their default existence in my life or half-assed efforts that I had to “command”/ask/request/beg of them to be all that’s required– basically they only wanted to do enough to placate me.
Clearly i have to never be all that “misogynistic” if I’ve put sufficient effort into my previous relationships with me, marry me, have kids with me, and they even did the large majority of initiating sexually (regardless of whether I rejected them or not), etc that they progressed to the point on more than one occasion they wanted to spend their life. Unfortuitously, similar to other “modern” ladies, these people were either incapable because of incompetence, or just declined to exhibit shared respect through real proactive work, and so I broke down my dedication to them (in some instances after many years of persistence as a husband, and gain all of what that entails (provision of all facets of security– emotional, physical, and financial; please them as a lover; make them feel special and appreciated, etc. ), but they didn’t want to have to work even to a minimal extent at being a wife, returning those same sentiments in a feminine way as a matter of mutual respect in return (at times even fighting tooth-and-nail to justify why they shouldn’t have to) with them)… in short, they wanted me to give them kids, and to acquire me.
Exactly exactly just How precisely can it be misogyny you may anticipate more effort than compared to platonic friendship (and for that matter, just her default that is neutral existence from a female whenever that girl seems compelled to inform a guy she really loves him?
Having said that, it is usually stated that this is of insanity will be keep doing the thing that is same and over while anticipating different outcomes… if pursuing ladies we appear to go along okay with just ever leads to unfulfilling, one-sided relationships EVEN ONCE THEY EXPRESS WHICH THEY APPRECIATE ME AND WISH TO DEVELOP A HOUSEHOLD BESIDE ME, I ask once more, what’s the purpose of pursuing ladies?
Now think about that the typical women behind those doorways probably will at the best provide games like pussysaga only her standard presence in the life if he opens sufficient doors to get to get her, that will include more difficulty to their life without incorporating any compensating advantage, and certainly will bring about a net-loss overall… what’s the point of fighting dozens of tigers for a net-loss in total well being?
Finally, think about this: If there are plenty men that are great there who aren’t like all us so named “red tablet misogynists”, exactly why are there a lot of articles where women can be railing about how precisely they can’t find any worthwhile guys, and all sorts of the complaints about guys being keen on porn and game titles than genuine females? Possibly the concern you ought to be asking is excatly why are porn and games that are video WOMEN for grown-men’s attention?
Could it perhaps, simply perhaps, be because females stopped providing old-fashioned value as relationship partners for males while really anticipating a lot more than old-fashioned value from guys? Just having a reliable task that will offer and keep the “structural” integrity of a modest house whilst having decent individual character used to be enough… now males are required to additionally undertake an important part of keeping the environmental surroundings in the house that has been usually included in ladies, while additionally being anticipated to supplying endless excitement to “keep her interested” emotionally, be the total selection of principal to intimate enthusiast that understands every small nuance of female sex, and constantly be including increasingly more and much more to their life to boost exactly just what he provides a lady in social status–basically unchecked Briffault’s law– to the level 90%+ associated with the males on the market will inevitably break.
