Katie 17, 2012, 9:42 am july
We agree to you… i dunno. Its difficult. I recently know personally i couldnt just let your ex glare at me personally for no reason… like, sorry woman, be angry at him. I have done absolutely nothing to you. But thats simply the person I will be.
Like i stated, i wouldnt walk out my method to attempt to speak with her, but if she sets the record right aided by the gf, ideally she’s going to turn her focus through the LW being a concern into the man being the problem, which will be the proceedings.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:50 am july
As well as, exactly exactly just what can you want to bet that he’s feeding their brand new gf your whole “crazy ex” routine to spell out why they talk all of the time? And was operating into one another really and truly just a coincidence?
Nadine July 17, 2012, 9:52 am
I’m able to realise why you’ll believe that means, it isnt nice never to be liked, but We browse the page to be in regards to the LW relationship with ex-BF, perhaps not the ex-BF present relationship. Thats simply a complicator. The LW is only able to get a handle on her very own actions, and ignore the ex-BF calling and being inconvenient. New GF to his relationship is none of her company, and honestly, the 2 girls don’t need to be friends at all. It could you need to be yet another url to the man for the LW, that is wanting to cut ties that are emotional.
Katie 17, 2012, 9:54 am july
Thats an excellent point for sure!
Nadine July 17, 2012, 10:01 am
Oh and god, we hate the crazy ex routine – I accustomed be buddies using this band of dudes whom accustomed have such lady-issues, and all sorts of the girls they dated would get crazy to them after a few weeks and I’d get actually astonished, cos they seemed so normal in my experience? Then it had been realised by me personally ended up beingn’t the girls, its the inventors. Therefore the girls had been all people that are just normal, you understand, desired to understand if that they had a boyfriend or not…….
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:04 am
Yea. Its love, as soon as that takes place enough times- what’s the denominator that is common? YOU MAY BE!!
I do feel harmful to this GF that is new. She deserves to own a guy’s complete attention. And she deserves some guy who isnt hung through to their ex, calling her and telling her which he nevertheless longs for her and material. Thats messed up! And she most likely hates the LW since the man is telling her a couple of crap about her. Its simply all incorrect. The whole thing.
Nadine 17, 2012, 10:09 am july
I’m bad on her behalf too, but she has to be aware of herself. Its difficult being the very first gf after a long relationship, but thats why a lot of people go into all of them with their eyes available. Oh and the man has to end dropping “But We have a girlllllllfriend! ” into conversation. We keep imagining him carrying it out the real method the crossdresser does it in minimal Britain, perhaps you have seen that? “Oh, but I’m a layyyyydeee! ”
Bagge72 17, 2012, 10:25 am july
Yeah that “but I have girlfriend” line is such crap, the LW understands he is just looking for a reaction everytime he says it that he has a GF. He desires the LW become like “well I don’t care I will still blow you” or “Dump that skank, and come back to me” if you have a GF,
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:27 am
Yea, its like whenever i was in highschool and me personally and my boyfriend would split up almost every other week, and then he would “accidently” text me personally or something like that just therefore we would fight and obtain right back together.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 2:45 pm
@katie, hahaha “just so we would fight and acquire right right back together”
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 10:05 am july
I’ve said here a whole lot, if the man whips out of the word that is“crazy operate one other means. I understand therefore men that are many utilize that word to hide with their dickish behavior.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:56 am
We don’t understand why people would phone somebody crazy within the place that is first. I simply state we didn’t see eye to eye long-term and then leave it at that. The actual fact which you place a “crazy” label upon it, makes me think you may well be one that loves to stir the muck.
Will.i.am July 17, 2012, 11:57 am
Additionally, you could be kinda crazy as well if you are willing to call someone crazy, wouldn’t that mean?
Rilooyah July 17, 2012, 4:44 pm
Therefore real! When the “crazy” comes down, Im operating one other means. I do believe it had been stated above- whenever you attract the crazy, the denominator that is common constantly YOU, buddy.
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:21 am
To be honest, that it really is partially the LW’s fault, she understands that he could be in this relationship, and she’s knows that if this occurred to her she most likely could be upset about any of it too, and yet she will continue to answer this guys calls despite the fact that he keeps stating that he’s dreaming about her, and all sorts of of the bull shit.
Lets_be_honest July 17, 2012, 10:26 am
Yep! We completely agree. LW, simply stop responding to. Don’t talk to the woman since your simply planning to cause drama. You must just understand he’s maybe maybe maybe not your boyfriend and also that you know he has a girlfriend is making you a bad guy in this too though you still like his attention, the fact.
Katie July 17, 2012, 10:35 am
That is a great point, you dudes. I didnt consider it like this.
So LW, them happyness, leave them alone!! Like eljay (i love you, eljay) said, someone has to be the adult in this situation if you really do respect their relationship and wish. If he’s maybe not ready to be, you need to do it.
Painted_lady July 17, 2012, 2:17 pm
Amen bestie – I trust you about talking into the gf. That knows exactly what this guy has said concerning the LW to justify their chatting many times, but as the relationship is none of these company, the fact that the LW in addition to girlfriend that is new met now i believe permits the LW some freedom. That I had heard about and wanted to get along with (I’m going to assume that the LW wants that? ) and it went horribly, I might reach out and go, hey, I’m so sorry that went badly if I had been in a situation where a friend brought someone around. She does not fundamentally need certainly to state, “Hey, so that your boyfriend happens to be saying _____ in my experience and he’s the main one calling, in which he explained you’re ok with this specific, ” just “Hey, I’m therefore sorry that went quickflirt poorly, I became beneath the impression you had been ok with your being buddies, but i recently understood I’m perhaps perhaps not fine with your being friends either, so that it’s no problem anymore. ”
Kerrycontrary July 17, 2012, 9:37 am
I’dn’t speak with the gf relating to this. I would want is their ex of 3 years reaching out to me if I were dating someone for two months the last thing. And merely to share with you you respect her relationship? I would personally think you had been bullshitting me personally and playing mind games. Simply Take Wendy’s advice and inform your ex partner you don’t wish to hear from him for some time, then keep them alone. Seriously they probably won’t workout because you’re nevertheless when you look at the image (which doesn’t do great things for a brand new relationship), but let them work that out on their own.
Kerrycontrary 17, 2012, 9:39 am july
Oh in addition, if we had been the brand new gf and my bf and I also went into his ex at a club i might additionally need that people leave instantly. It is therefore uncomfortable. Everybody pretends they can be” that is“mature stay buddies with exes and stay completely ok whenever your SO’s ex turns up, but why? You don’t have become okay with being around your boyfriends ex-girlfriend of three years.
Bagge72 July 17, 2012, 10:28 am
